I know in my last marriage I really let the romance go. She followed it shortly after. I am making no such mistake this time.

OK, this is going to be short and sweet. Over the next week I want you to go up to your lady and stop her from doing what she is doin' and sing to her and dance. I know you probably sing like me, I have made dogs howl (literally). That's ok, just sing a love song and dance with her.

Another day, get a rose, or roses and bring them to her.

Another day, draw her a warm bath when she isn't expecting it.

Another day, look into her eyes and tell her that she is the most important woman in the world.

Another day, make some borderline crude comment about how good she looks. Don't be insulting. I like 'Girl, I hate to see ya go but I love to watch ya leave!'

I know what your saying, that stuff is stupid. It is trite and ridiculous, and a waste of time. I agree, but just do it and see what happens.

Seriously, do it, as stupid and silly as it sounds. The rewards are worth far more than the effort.

By the way, if any ladies are reading this, we really do think all this stuff is silly. We do it because y'all like it, and at the end of the day that's what matters.

Remember guys, your ladies make the home, whether they are career women or not. Your home will determine the level of your success, your true success. Treat your ladies like gold, and you will be rewarded, I promise.

With that I will say:

Get the Barbarian Mind Set and keep it. Stay tr to yourself and your family, the rest will take care of itself.